MEMORIES

MEMORIES are always special. Everyone cherish their  good memories for a lifetime. We always want to remember good things, which is actually nice. It feels relaxing and enriches our mood just by thinking about our good times. 

                     Some memories do hold a special place in our lives, those are just irreplaceable. But now-a-days people don't have time to sit and reminisce them due to  work or because of our daily life stress. 

                                People believe that only good memories have an impact on our life, personality. Not to forget bad memories also leave an impact on our personalities. It is not always in a negative way but most of the time people feel that the effect is only negative. It's all about our perception. 

                                       I believe that bad memories teach us many important things which good ones can't. "For instance if there is sunlight 24/7 , then do you think it would have so much value as it has now?".

                                            Everything in our lives has a reason behind them. If we don't have bad we would not value good things. We should forget bad memories,but not the lesson we learn from them.

                                                 It totally depends upon your thought process, that what you learn from those experiences in your life. Neve let your negative thoughts overpower you. Always try look at the brighter side of your life.After every dark night there is a bright sunny day waiting for you...

                                      Whenever you are stressed just sit and try to reminisce all the beautiful moments of your life. You will start smiling that to without any effort from your side...

Thank you ....

Stay blessed and happy....

Next post will be updated on 25/3/2020.

INSECURITIES

"Insecurities"!This word has a great impact on everyone. No one can say that they don't have any kind of insecurities.

                                             At any point of time people may have insecurities. Having insecurities is not a bad thing. It's just that people make it sound bad.Ask yourself these  questions  to know if you have insecurities?

        1. Am I insecure ? If yes then what is it about.

          2. Why am I insecure?

          3. Is it really that important for me to be insecure about myself ?

                     When you ask your self these questions you will know yourself in a better way.You will understand exactly what makes you have these feelings. The feelings of being uncertain is not very pleasant. 

                             Don't let your insecurities hold you back. Be positive and try to over come these unpleasant feelings. I made my insecurities my strength. My insecurities made me realise my potentials. 

                                   Try to learn about your self. Be sure about your feelings. Make your insecurities as a booster to be a better version of you. Don't let them effect your positive attitude. If you are insecure about any relationship in your life speak about it. Be vocal about your feelings. What ever you feel express it. Don't bottle your self. This may cause some disagreement between people. 

             Sometimes disagreement are better than misunderstandings. if you try to learn about the other persons feelings or point of view it's not bad instead it will help you know what the other person wants. And it will also help you to take certain decision. Understand others but at the same time don't forget about your feelings.

Thank you..

Stay blessed and happy.....

Happy women's day.....

Next post will be updated on 16/3/2020.

                                   

FLOWER

Flower! Who doesn't like it. Everyone of us love flowers. They define beauty. For me life is also like a flower. Every day we see new form or stage of our Life.
                      Most of us say "I love my life" , but we say this only when there is only happiness in our life. Nobody likes sadness or sorrows. We forget these are also a part of our life. We are just simply not ready to accept this fact. Some of us start hating life when there is even a little bit of stress,why can't we cherish our life even during bad situations just like we do in our happiness.
                         We should learn to accept our sadness as well. We all admire flowers, so should learn from them to start blooming after withering. We should stay strong and fight for our happiness.
     
                                FLOWER
       

      Always Learn to spread happiness and joy even when life is throwing alot of challenges. Always bloom like a flower and stay happy..
Thank you..
Stay blessed and happy...
Next post will be updated on 8/3/2020.

HAUGHTY

Arrogance has various reasons. People will definitely term you as arrogant, if they feel that it's hard for them to hit your self-esteem. I have been known for my arrogant behavior.I am an haughty person according to many people. But this is what I am! For people who fails to understand my reserved nature. I just can't let people take me for granted.

               I don't let anyone demean me. For this reason if I am termed as an arrogant person then I take it as an compliment. And I really don't feel it's necessary for me to justify myself to every individual I meet.Don't ever let others rule your behavior. At the same time it doesn't mean, that you have to be so much self obsessed that you start giving priority to the word "myself" other than anything.

                                     some times listen to people who always wish for your happiness and growth. Not everyone you meet would try to disrespect you. At certain times it becomes necessary to be an arrogant person than an humble person just to protect your self or the person you care for but not always.

                            Nowadays people are calling you as arrogant simply because you are not that expressive or you are an introvert. It has become an habit for some people to tag others with some or the other name. Never let these kind of people define you. Just be the way you actually are. People would always judge you according to their needs. So let others think what they want because you can't change everyone's perception. If you work according to them,they will praise you and when you don't then they would find ways to criticize you. Don't let anyone's Opinion effect you,so that you would actually start being skeptical about yourself

Always be cent percent sure about yourself.. 

Thank you...

Stay blessed and happy...

Next post will be updated on 1/3/2020.

PREJUDICE

"Don't judge a book by it's cover" we all must have heard this idiom. Do we actually believe in this phrase? To be very honest we don't.Everyone has a fear of being judged why? Because somewhere or the other we ourselves tend to judge people just due our some illogical notions. So we start thinking that others will also have some preconceived  assumptions about us just by looking at our appearance. One can never understand the concept and content of a book by just looking at it's cover, because the cover is just meant to give the viwer a hint that what could be the book about or to attract the viewers and readers. Similarly we should never have any prejudice about people by just looking at their appearance. By looking at the ocean can one tell about the depth of the ocean or what are there beneath the ocean. The answer would be no because it's not possible.so why do we judge anyone based on their looks.Appearance do matter,it holds a great impact on the people looking at us but that doesn't mean it's everything. For instance if a book is looking fabulous by its cover it doesn't mean it also has a great story to tell us. Always appreciate the content and just not the cover. Some people might have a great persona but if you really want to know them think beyond how they look. Give importance to their thoughts and wisdom not just their appearance. If you stop judging others they will also stop judging you start thinking like this. Train yourself to not have any prejudice about anything then you will also stop being conscious about your appearance. Do look good, present yourself in a very effective manner but never try to copy any one just because you have a fear of being judged. Be the way you are. I personally believe that "look beyond the appearance" because that can be a myth created about one's real character.

Thank you...

Stay blessed and happy....

Next post will be updated on 22/2/2020.

Impenetrable

What does "being strong" means to you? For me being strong doesn't mean you have to fight or yell as loud as you can for putting forth your opinion.Being strong simply means you have the courage and strength to accept your mistakes gracefully. And making sure that those mistakes are not repeated. Be strong enough to never forget the lessons which life has taught you in order to make you a better person. Accepting one's flaws with elegance and able to take all the criticism with a beautiful smile makes one strong. Certain situations would be tough, but how quickly your able to bounce back to normal makes one strong. Be impenetrable for others to see through your sorrows. Be a mystery which only you can solve. Being strong doesn't mean you have to always mask your true self or emotions. It just means that you are capable enough to express it at a right place to the right person. To prove people that you are bold and strong one should never make others feel weak or vulnerable. Be strong in your own way but in that process never make others afraid of you. Everyone has their own thoughts of a strong personality, it's really not needed for you to compete with that. Be the real you is what makes one unique and though being a part of the courd will make you stand out of them..so be real be you.. just the way you are....

Thank you

Stay blessed and happy..

Next post will be updated on 18/2/2020

Own Person

"Be your own person".Do not ever let any given situation or person define "what you are". Be what you want to be and not what others want you to be. Do not hesitate to accept your mistakes and at the same time don't dwell on it. Learn from mistakes and make sure you should never repeat them. They will be alot of people who will tell you how you should behave or react in certain situations, but never let them influence you to an extend that you will behave according to them and not how  you want to.Be true to yourself. Be the Strom you want to be, but not the air what others think you are. Always respect others point of view but at the same time don't loose your self-respect. I was always told by people that am very "ARROGANT" .If back then I would have chosen to act according to them and ignored my instincts then today may be I would have been the "queen of arrogance". I have never let others decide what I should be never ever. If I was called arrogant for taking a stand for myself then be it. I can't just go to people and justify myself. I can never change others opinion totally about me or persuade them to think positive about me. I can either keep others or myself happy. And I choose to make me the happiest person I have ever known. Never loose your true self in the chaos of others opinion. No need to be good by loosing your self. Always be the person you want to be and never try to pretend what you are not. Pretence can never make you happy unless you're aiming to make others happy and superficious about your own happiness..

Thank you..

Stay blessed and happy..

Next post will be updated on 15/2/2020.