TRUST

Trust this five letter word holds a great importance in our lives doesn't it ? We often hear people asking this question that whom do you trust the most and how much value do you give to trust in your life. When these questions are asked we take a lot of time to answer because sometimes we do have so many people in our life whom we trust the most and at times we just feel that people are not trust worthy. This is very common but according to me the answer should be "I trust myself more than anyone " because if we don't trust ourselves then how can we trust anyone else. Trust yourself so that you can over come any problem in your life and never ever doubt your self worth. For any relationship trust is the most important ingredient to make it successful. Trust should always be balanced because if it is more or less both are harmful. It takes a long time to build trust not on others but also in one self because to be honest it really becomes difficult to trust your own judgements we feel this can be wrong or how will people take it. If it is wrong let it be learn from it, move forward and make sure you don't repeat it again... Never forget to trust yourself and don't let it break at any cost..

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Stay blessed and happy..

Next post will be updated on 2/2/2020

"NO"

A simple "no" really makes a lot of difference. Most of us don't know when to say no. At times we don't want to do certain things but unwillingly we do it just because we cannot deny. We feel if we deny to do things someone is asking us to do then people might feel offended or they will make an issue and this will be bad for our image as people might make negative statements about us. At times we just do things unwillingly due to various reasons like it will be good for our career or it will make someone happy, but we do forget that our this thinking might cause us alot. As some might think this as our weakness or they just take us for granted as they know we would not be able to deny them. If we start saying "no" for everything then that will also be wrong in a way this no would just become an excuse for us for not doing work. People should use this no not as an excuse or to avoid something they should use it for taking a stand for themselves so that they are not treated as someone who will do anything what others are telling or ordering them. So please do think  wisely before agreeing to or denying something because at times saying a no is far better than a yes. We should never ever do anything which will hurt someone that to willing just because we don't get along with them or someone else want us to do it. 

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Stay blessed and happy..

Next post will be updated on 30/1/2020.

ATTITUDE

Attitude is something which defines us! Right this is what most of us think but according to me attitude should not define us it should be "we" who should decide our attitude towards people or situation. Believe in yourself this will help you to build a strong attitude which you don't have to explain to people. Let them form different opinions about you but don't let them effect you or the way you think. One should always have a positive attitude towards any given situation this will help them to rise above all the problems. I was the one who was always told that I have been very arrogant or I have a attitude problem, but that should be my concern. If I am not hurting anyone or disrespecting them then how come am wrong here. If I have always kept my self-esteem as my priority then how can my attitude be wrong? To me attitude is not showing people  what they are or what they have..it is just being how true and honest one can be with themselves...

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 stay blessed and happy always..